Chasers: warning signs and ways to protect your boundaries

A clear starting point

This guide organises invasive fetishisation, persistence and respect for no.

Consent must be freely given, specific and ongoing. Interest does not erase boundaries, and no never requires a justification.

What deserves attention

Use these steps as a reference and adapt them to your context, pace and safety.

Search terms can help someone find information, but they never justify assuming identity, availability or intimacy.

Practical steps

Use these steps as a reference and adapt them to your context, pace and safety.

• Agree on expectations before a date or conversation.
• Share the plan with a trusted person when needed.
• End contact when persistence or threats appear.

Respect before labels

Search terms can help someone find information, but they never justify assuming identity, availability or intimacy.